Holiday travel can be very difficult. Crowds mob the airport creating long lines, flights go out full so there are no empty center seats, which limits shoulder room. Passengers and service providers may be short-tempered and surly. We can't change the facts, but we can change the feeling.

All we want is tranquility and peace-of-mind. We do not want to feel hassled or herded or anxious. The trick is to trade time for peace-of-mind.

Standing in line to pass through security is bad enough. Fearing that you will not get through in time to board your flight turns an inconvenience into a hassle. Solve the problem by investing a little time. Bring along a good book and simply arrive at the airport two hours early. Doing so will not shorten the lines but it will eliminate the anxiety. You will be certain that you will be finished with security with time to spare.

Experienced travelers trade time for peace-of-mind by selecting flights departing early in the morning (before 7:00 AM). Typically, these flights are less crowded and are nearly twice as likely to arrive at the destination on time - even during the holiday crush. You will arrive at your destination fresher and in a better mood.

Another trick is to skip as many lines as possible. For example, many carriers allow you to check in by phone or Internet 24 hours early. Doing that lets you skip a trip to the check-in counter. Sometimes you can even score a side benefit. Some carriers release the choice exit row seats the day of the flight. You might be able to switch your seat assignment to something you prefer. Incidently, the best shoulder room is found in aisle seats. You may need to lean in from time to time to let passengers, crew, or drink carts to get past but otherwise you will enjoy that open space beside you.

Finally, check my posting of November 2006 regarding using lodging and rental car reservations to ease your anxiety level and give you precious options at a stop-over or connection city.

Happy Holidays